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Maggie
Vaughn Cox - Life Story
Daughter
of Jonathan Hiram Daniel Cox and
Louisa Isabella Price.
Wife of Paul Emil Gottfried
Schwartz.
[Vaughn spells her father's name
as Johnathan.]
Life
Story
of
Maggie Vaughn Schwartz
Written
And Recorded In Her Own Words
As She Spoke Them
I’m
old and wrinkled and full of
fleas. If I reach May 9, 1981, I’ll
be eighty years old. You all
know what I look like. I’m a
sight for sore eyes! I’ll soon
be a bald headed eagle, but
there’s still snow on the
mountain, so there’s still
fire in the furnace. Sometime
the embers will dim and I will
leave this earth and return to
my heavenly home. You will not see much of
me then, but I’ll be on my way
to living a wonderful eternal
life.
You won’t forget me.
How could you?
This story will refresh
your memory.
My
mother had a dozen children at
home.
I was the seventh child,
and my dad delivered me.
They didn’t have any
fandangled medicine to ease the
labor pains like they do now.
Times change, and things are
made easier for people than when
I was young.
Babies can be born now
without feeling any pain at all.
Mothers then had to stay
in bed ‘til the ninth day.
They could get up and sit
in the rocker for a while on the
ninth day, and on the tenth day
they could get up and stay up.
About all we did was
change diapers and bathe our
babies in bed.
Most mothers nowadays go
home from the hospital the day
after their babies are born, and
they don’t stay in bed much. Things were different
when I was born. Mama thought I weighed about
eight pounds, and I imagine Papa
had a scale to weigh me.
I had lots of black hair
and brown eyes like my dad’s.
I was a good, healthy
baby, but two of my brothers,
Roland and Eldrid, died about
two weeks after they were born.
There were five girls and
seven boys in my family.
Papa and Mama loved
children plenty.
Now
I’ll tell you some important
dates and names and places taken
from my dad’s old family
Bible.
Johnathan Hiram Daniel
Cox wrote these things in his
own handwriting, and I have this
Bible.
It is old and torn, and
many pages are yellow.
A while before Mama died,
she gave this Bible to me. She said that she and Dad
would like me to have it.
It is a very treasured
gift to me.
My dad used an ink dip
pen to write with.
The dates and events that
happened after Papa died, I
recorded myself.
My
Father:
Johnathan Hiram Daniel Cox
born in Lauderdale County in
Killen, Alabama
on January 3, 1866
son of Martin VanBuren
Cox and Mary Elizabeth Harrison
married Louisa Isabella Price on
October 30, 1888
in Lauderdale County, Alabama
Death:
October 10, 1945 at
Parma, Canyon, Idaho
Burial:
October 13, 1945 at
Parma, Canyon, Idaho
Baptized:
November 7, 1898
Endowed:
March 3, 1949
Papa
called Mama “Lutie Bell,”
and she called him “Dad”
most of the time.
My sister Jessie’s
daughter, Ova Johnson, gave me a
genealogy sheet with all this
written on it too.
My dad used to read from
this Bible every day after
supper and on Sunday morning.
We all sat down and
listened to him read.
He told us to live up to
its teachings.
He and my mother always
set the right example before us.
My
Mother:
Louisa Isabella Price
born in Lauderdale
County, St. Florence, Alabama
on December 16, 1870
daughter of John Henry
Price and Mary Elizabeth
Allington
Death:
June 18, 1948 at Parma at
Caldwell, Canyon, Idaho
Burial:
June 21, 1948 at Parma,
Canyon, Idaho
Baptized:
November 7, 1898
Papa
and Mama lived happily together.
They
never fought or disagreed.
My dad always knew how
things should go, and Mama
always listened to him.
Papa’s eyes were dark
brown.
His eyes spoke!
All he had to do is look
at you and you always knew what
he was saying.
You knew if he agreed or
disagreed.
He was always kind and
good to us, and he never whipped
us unless he had to, which wasn’t
very much.
He most always talked to
us and got us to understand
right from wrong that way.
We knew what to do,
depending on how his eyes
looked.
His eyes were mostly soft
and gentle.
Papa’s hair was black.
Maybe he was about fifty
years old when he started
graying.
He had a big frame and
was six feet tall.
Two of my brothers,
Weldon and Evan, both were that
tall.
Papa weighed 190 pounds
most his life.
I never remember my dad
being fat, but he always had a
mustache.
Papa
built a house in Kelsey, Texas
with a front porch clear across
the whole house.
There were porches on the
east and west sides too.
The porch on the back was
smaller than the front one.
They used to build houses
with porches on all sides back
then in the South. The foundation was up off
the ground, so chickens would go
under there to keep cool in the
hottest part of the day. I found my old pet
speckled hen dead under the
house one day.
I was five years old and
that old buff-colored hen was my
favorite pet.
This was a hot summer
day.
It might get 110 degrees
some days.
I was looking for my old
hen and I missed her.
I couldn’t see her
anywhere, so I crawled under the
house and found her stiff in a
far corner, dead.
I lovingly brought her
out, crying because she was
stiff.
I found a baby blanket,
wrapped her up, put her in a
shoe box, dug a hole to put the
box in, sang two funeral songs,
and buried her.
I did it all by myself.
I felt sad because I
loved her so much.
Her grave was in the
corner of the back yard.
This
new house had two fireplaces.
One in the living room
and one in my dad’s and Mother’s
bedroom.
This fireplace was really
just one fireplace with a front
and back side, which made a
fireplace in two rooms.
Papa grew zinnias and
roses, bridle wreath and baby
breath, and Cannes in Kelsy,
(sic) Texas.
He had a small garden and
peach orchard.
K-E-L-S-E-Y is the
correct spelling.
Mama’s
eyes were violet blue.
They were the prettiest
color eyes I have ever seen.
She never spanked us
because she would rather talk to
us to get us to mind.
Her hair was black and
she was very fair complected.
I never did see her put
any make-up on.
She was pretty enough
without it.
She was five feet two
inches tall.
I was the only girl as
short as her.
The other girls were
taller.
She wore a size three
shoe when she was younger, but
later she wore a size four.
She was small boned.
She weighed 135 pounds.
She sang around home
quite a bit, and sang in the
choir at church.
Both Papa and Mama were
baptized November 7, 1898, and
both their mothers’ names were
Mary Elizabeth.
Not many couples have
mothers with the same names.
Both Papa and Mama prayed
a lot and taught all their
children to pray.
They took us to church
with them, and I have good
memories of my childhood.
They took care of us
right.
My
Brothers and Sisters
Now
I’ll tell my brothers’ and
sisters’ names and important
things:
1.
Jessie Marguerite Cox was born
September 10, 1889 at St.
Florence, Lauderdale, Alabama.
She was baptized August
27, 1899, and was endowed
February 25, 1947.
She married Willis Lemuel
Edgar, August 7, 1907.
Jessie
had brown eyes and black hair
with olive tone skin.
She was one inch taller
than me.
I used to visit her house
quite a bit when I was a little
girl.
She had eight children
and I helped her care for them a
lot. There were twin girls and
twin boys and four other
children.
Her husband, Lem as she
called him, entertained me by
telling stories about Trot Lip. He’d say “Trot Lip
will get you if you don’t
watch out!”
I never was afraid.
I just liked to hear him
say that.
He was very entertaining
to talk to.
Jessie got sugar diabetes
and had to give herself insulin
shots every day ‘til she died.
Lem is still living, and
he is being cared for by one of
his twin daughters, Ova, who
lives in Salt Lake City, Utah. Jessie was a clean, nice
person and took extra good care
of her family.
2.
Evan Hubert Cox was born
May 11, 1891 at Bailey Springs,
Lauderdale, Alabama.
He was baptized August
27, 1899.
He married Annie Bell
Dixon February 1909.
He drank too much and got
a liver disease and died August
14, 1953.
Evan
had a lot of friends and had
seven children.
I never was around Annie
and him that much.
3.
Mary Estelle Cox was born
April 19, 1893 at Lane, Hunt,
Texas.
She was baptized May 5,
1901.
She married Troy Angus
Gooing January, 1910.
She was endowed January
5, 1916 and sealed to parents
September 1, 1949.
Estelle died of a
ruptured appendix May 18, 1912.
Estelle
was a good sister and a
religious person.
She was in Texas when she
died.
She was married two years
before her death, and had one
daughter, Ruby.
I named my Ruby after
Estelle’s girl.
4.
Roland Maxon Cox was born
August 9, 1895 at Hickory
Planes, Prairie, Arkansas.
He died August 23, 1895,
and was sealed to parents
September 1, 1949.
My
dad and my mother will sure have
him in the next life.
Babies sure do go to
Heaven, because they don’t
commit any sins or wrong doing. They are innocent. I
never did see Roland, but I know
I will.
I was born six years
later.
5.
Vivian Leigh Cox was born
November 26, 1896 at Killen,
Lauderdale, Alabama.
She was baptized January
15, 1907, and endowed January
17, 1960.
She married Jedediah
Gooing July 18, 1913.
She died April 22, 1977.
Jedediah and Troy Gooing
were brothers.
Vivian
had blue eyes and brown hair.
She was fair and more
like Mama than any of us girls.
I think she was about
five feet five inches tall.
I imagine she was the
tallest girl.
Vivian was always careful
about her appearance and enjoyed
new dresses. She liked to travel some
when we were growing up together
and I remember she liked to
fish.
Mama liked to fish too.
I think Vivian was like
Mama in lots of ways.
Vivian had a large family
and was a good mother.
Yes, she was like Mama.
6.
Joseph Lorenzo Cox was
born May 9, 1899 at Dulaney,
Hunt, Texas.
He was baptized April 3,
1909, endowed May 19, 1944, and
sealed to parents September 1,
1949.
He died June 27, 1911.
Joseph
was two years older than me, and
we used to walk to Primary.
I remember it was
quarter-a-mile and a dirt road.
We never heard of
freeways or overpasses then.
We’d take hold of hands
and walk home together too.
Joseph liked to play
baseball.
I think he had blue eyes.
We seemed like twins
because we were born on the same
day, and we were together quite
a bit. We had birthday parties
together. I remember the night he
died.
I was there.
Papa and Mama were with
him.
He died in his bed during
the night.
I’ve forgotten what it
was he died of.
He was twelve years old
and I was ten.
It was a very sad time
for me.
I loved him a lot.
7.
Maggie Vaughn Cox was
born May 9, 1901 at Chocau
Indian Nation, Indian Territory
(taken from a family group sheet
by Ova Johnson), and the family
Bible records state she was born
in Massey, Oklahoma.
She was baptized May 23,
1909.
She married Paul Emil
Gottfried Schwartz June 29,
1917.
My
Grandchildren sing a song I like
but I can’t sing worth
anything now.
I used to sing all right,
so I’ll just put down the
words:
The
world turns ‘round like a
merry-go-round.
It lets some off and it takes
some on.
Some horses are high, some
horses are low.
Some turns are short and some
turns are long.
It’s
my turn!
It’s my turn! It’s my turn on Earth!
The
world turns ‘round like a
Ferris wheel.
Sometimes you’re low and
sometimes you’re high.
But even way down, you can never
forget
The thrill you feel when you’re
touching the sky!
It’s
my turn!
It’s my turn! It’s my turn on Earth!
It ends with death.
It begins with birth.
And it’s my turn on Earth!
Never
mind just how long you stay,
The size or shape of the horse
you’ve got.
Just see all the sights and hear
all the sounds,
And feel the sun, and you’ll
learn a lot!
It’s
my turn!
It’s my turn! It’s my turn on Earth!
I
was probably two years old when
I first started singing.
I really like music and
singing.
I guess I was like my
mother that way.
Fishing was my favorite
pastime.
I’ve caught hundreds of
catfish and some of those crazy
old carp.
I’ve skinned about
every one I’ve caught with
pliers and a sharp knife.
I fried most all of them
in butter.
That’s the only way
Paul would eat them.
Good and crisp and brown.
He liked those old
bullheads.
He’d eat half a dozen
at one time.
He liked to take a
teaspoon of sugar, tap it with
his knife, and sprinkle it over
ripe, red tomatoes.
And he liked pickled,
spiced herring and pig’s feet.
8.
Marion Johnathan Cox was
born September 3, 1904 at
Kelsey, Upshur, Texas.
He was baptized in 1914,
and married Opal Irene Vickers
February 7, 1927.
He is still living and
resides at Parma, Idaho.
Marion
had a radio shop in Parma.
He has blue eyes and
black hair.
Opal and Marion have
three children.
He liked to fish and
tinker with things and take them
apart and put them back together
again. I have grandchildren who
do that too. He was a level-headed boy
and I liked him a lot.
As far as I know, all of
the children in our family went
as far as the eighth grade.
That’s not the right
way to spell eighth. I know that much anyway!
Most everyone just went
to the eighth grade then, and on
the homestead in Montana, the
school house just had one big
room where everyone, all the
grades from the first to the
eighth, was just taught by one
teacher.
But in Billings, Montana,
they had separate rooms for each
grade.
We had an outdoor toilet
with spiders under the wooden
seats.
9.
Willis Orlan Cox was born
April 24, 1906 at Gilmer, Upshur,
Texas.
He married Winsome
Reynolds April 24, 1934, and was
baptized 1914.
He is now living in
California.
Orlan
could play the violin when he
was nine years old.
He made some homemade
violins.
They were the best in the
world.
Orlan and Winnie used to
play together and sing around
home.
Winnie was a beautiful
person and I can hear her and
Orlan singing “Silver Dew on
the Blue Grass.”
They were good singers.
We all had extra good
times together up on the
homestead.
Oh yes, I was baptized in
a creek in the spring at Kelsey.
10.
Weldon Bailey Cox was born April
29, 1908 at Kelsey, Upshur,
Texas.
He was baptized August
14, 1924, and married Frances L.
Talley February 14, 1929.
He is still living.
Weldon
liked music too. He caught plenty of fish
too.
They had two children,
both girls.
I don’t remember where
he went to school, but I went to
school in Kelsey, Texas.
There was that town then,
even if they can’t find it on
the map now. I was there, and I know
it was there. I also went to Lovell,
Wyoming, and then to Billings,
Montana, and finished the eighth
grade.
Then we moved to the
homestead in the Bull Mountains
in Montana.
My favorite school
subjects were spelling, art and
English.
Ones I liked less were
arithmetic and history.
11.
Eldrid Price Cox was born
September 15, 1910 at Kelsey,
Upshur, Texas.
He died October 7, 1910.
He lived about three
weeks.
I
remember seeing Eldrid when he
was born.
He was a pretty baby with
black hair.
Roland and Eldrid both
died in infancy.
That must have been hard
on Mama and Papa.
I know they will have
this baby too.
12.
Edith Montana Cox was born July
15, 1913 at Billings,
Yellowstone, Montana.
She was baptized August
14, 1924, the same as Weldon.
She married Howard George
Dice July 9, 1932.
She died July 8, 1939.
Edith
was my favorite sister.
I took care of her more
than Mama did because Mama’s
health was so bad, so Edith
seemed like my own child.
I was twelve when Edith
was born, and she was one of the
prettiest babies I ever saw.
She had black hair and
brown eyes like Papa. She could sing and play
the violin. She could dance the
Charleston and was a beautiful
girl.
Edith and Orlan would
sing together and play violins.
She had two children,
girls, when she died.
She was married seven
years and died just one day
before her wedding anniversary
from a tick bite that gave her
spotted fever.
She was a religious, good
girl, and if anybody will go to
Heaven, she will!
I missed her plenty.
I’ll be really happy to
see her again.
That will be the best
family reunion I’ve ever had!
That
finishes telling about my
brothers and sisters.
They were good people.
Family
Life
Our
whole family went to church
together, and Papa held a church
office.
I think he was Branch
President at Kelsey, Texas.
As new families moved in,
Papa kept them in our home ‘til
a place was found for them to
live.
One family had head lice,
and one woman was retarded and
sat and rocked her baby all the
time.
Papa was real good to
everybody.
He always helped anyone
who needed help.
The
Cox family was in a cyclone at
Kelsey, Texas about 1907.
That’s the reason Papa
had to build the new house with
the porches.
The cyclone lifted the
old house ten feet off its
foundation and set it down again
aright.
No one was hurt.
We were all in the house
and Mama put all the kids under
the bed and knelt and prayed
during the cyclone.
Kelsey was a Mormon
settlement and the worst thing
that happened was a brick hit a
man on the head.
He got a goose egg from
that.
Papa said he was going to
build a new house anyway.
The cyclone threw the
front porch pillar into the
living room, just missing my
sister Estelle.
She was fifteen then.
That’s when Mama put us
under the bed.
There were plenty of us
people praying then.
That’s why no one was
killed.
But the cyclone lifted a
baby out of its mothers arms and
blew it through a window into
the yard.
After the cyclone was
lulled down enough, they went
out to see if they could see
anything of their baby, and
there it was, in a low place
with the window over the top of
it.
The glass pane wasn’t
even broken, and the baby wasn’t
hurt at all!
Prayers are heard and
they are answered.
I really know that.
Mama
was a good, extra good cook.
Some of the Southern
foods she cooked were corn bread
and molasses, buttermilk and
turnip greens, black-eyed peas
and ham.
Oh, I remember now what
Joseph died of, it was stomach
trouble.
Papa ran a general store,
a sawmill, did blacksmith work,
and doctored us when we were
sick.
He figured on being a
doctor and for five years he
studied for it.
But Mama thought it would
shorten his life, and he wouldn’t
get enough rest to live to be
very old, because Papa would
keep going day and night if
people were sick, so he didn’t
go on with the plans. He knew enough to be a
real doctor and saved people’s
lives and helped sick people a
lot anyway.
When
Papa had the blacksmith shop, I
got up on the bellows.
I liked to be around him.
I fell off backwards on a
sharp piece of iron.
My head struck the iron
and it stuck into my head almost
to my brain.
That’s what Papa said.
He said it almost killed
me.
I bled like a stuck hog.
My dad tore off his shirt
in strips and packed the hole in
my head.
He had to do that in a
hurry to save my life. I was five then.
Papa didn’t have a
doctor’s degree, but he saved
lots of people.
All
of the story I have told so far
was in 1977.
I told these things to my
daughter, Nola, at Jerome,
Idaho, and she wrote down what I
said.
I was seventy-six years
old then and was active in
Relief Society and was in
several plays too.
It’s now November 17,
1980, Monday afternoon.
Every month, I call
visiting teachers to ask if
their teaching is done.
I don’t mind doing this
at all.
I like to help around the
place and do all I can.
This
next part was told October 9,
1980.
Johnathan Cox wanted us
to do right about everything.
He was honest, loving,
ambitious and forgiving.
When Papa had the grocery
store, he let several people
have groceries on credit.
Many died owing him
money.
He was so tender-hearted
and liked people so much that he
didn’t hold a grudge against
them.
I
remember there were big cakes of
cheese, wooden barrels full of
dill pickles, cracker barrels,
tubs of mixed candies, and papa
ate candy all day while
clerking.
He’d bring candy home
for the whole family to eat, and
put a sack of it under his
pillow at night to eat himself.
When
the elders came to visit, he
threw his pipe and tobacco in to
the fireplace and watched them
burn. He never smoked after
that.
Papa and Mama joined the
church when they had three
children.
Papa
was a good carpenter and
blacksmith.
Mama canned fruits and
vegetables and she always baked
bread.
When our family happened
to be there we played cards,
pitch and such mainly, and
usually ate candy and nuts, but
Mama didn’t.
She’d rather have a
piece of cold boiled potato.
Papa helped with all the
housework, and he’d read the
Bible to us at night after
supper time.
We
had two cows and chickens and
Papa would make our cream and
butter.
He raised pigs on the
homestead for meat.
The homestead was ninety
miles northwest of Billings,
Montana with a few pine trees,
but mostly dry country.
Mama was a very clean
person about everything, the
house,
herself, and kept the
children clean.
Mama and Papa were always
teaching us to do right.
My dad spanked me once,
and then it was because my
brother blamed me.
Up at the sawmill, he
fell and said I pushed him.
But I didn’t.
He got hurt, and I got
spanked.
Oh,
my black hair started graying
early at age twenty-five.
That was because of the
head accident I had when I fell
on the sharp iron at the
blacksmith shop.
I also fell off my horse
once when I was seven years old
and sprained my arm.
I was afraid of bulls,
but I liked raising chickens,
gardens and canning.
I remember my first grade
teacher, Mrs. Yarbrough, who was
single and a good person.
We
had kerosene lamps on the table
and wood stoves to cook from.
Of course we had the
outdoor toilets close to the
house.
We had a well for
cooking, drinking, taking baths
in galvanized tubs, and for
washing clothes.
We washed clothes on the
rub board. I
washed on it quite a little, and
after I was married too.
We rubbed the clothes
with bar soap.
Some people made it, but
we bought it in stores.
We did more than push a
button to wash clothes.
We scrubbed and scrubbed
some more, and we’d boil the
white clothes, and then rinse
them in two or three different
clean waters in the wash tubs.
Naturally too, we’d
rinse them out by hand each time
and hang them on the clothes
line.
With our size family, it
took a big share of the day.
We heated the wash water
on the wood stove.
We carried the tubs of
water outside and emptied them.
I didn’t mind doing it.
We
had a pantry in the kitchen for
our canned food.
We made our own quilts an
pillows and feather or straw
mattresses.
Papa shot ducks for meat,
feather pillows and feather
beds.
Yes, there were mice and
we set mouse traps and had cats.
I never allowed cats in
my house to stink up the rugs.
I don’t believe in
having animals in the house.
We
had an organ and the boys all
played musical instruments,
violins mainly, and my mother
played the organ.
We sang as a family
together quite a bit.
Mom sang “Missouri
Waltz,” “Barbara Allen,”
“Lilac Trees Are Blooming,”
and others.
Our shoes were high top,
lace or button.
We wore cotton dresses.
Oh, we ironed all the
time!
We used heavy, flat
irons.
Some had wooden handles.
We heated them on the
wood stove.
We had to use a rag to
hold the hot handles.
They stayed hot enough to
iron good for five to ten
minutes.
Then we’d heat them
again.
We had four to five irons
heating all the time.
We never had electric
dryers or fridges, and we never
heard tell of a water bed!
I don’t care for them
myself.
We never had electric
lights.
I
played the organ and piano by
ear.
I never learned by note.
I play “Wedding Bells,”
and I don’t know the names of
the other song.
Mama and I would play “Sweet
Bunch of Daisies.”
Mama made most all of our
clothes.
I sewed a lot after I was
married for my children.
I made my first nine
patch quilt when I was nine
years old. It
had nine small squares for each
block.
I bet that was a mess!
When
I was ten, we moved from Texas
to Wyoming, then to Montana.
I baked bread when I was
twelve years old and cooked for
a thrashing crew after I was
married in Montana.
Edith, my baby sister,
was born in Montana on the
Yellowstone River, almost a mile
and a half from Billings.
I took care of her more
than Mama did.
We liked to be around
each other.
One day on the river,
Edith went out on the limb of an
old tree that had fallen partly
down into the water.
She didn’t know how to
swim.
She was twelve then and I
was twenty-four.
My Uncle Frank, Mama’s
brother, saved her from
drowning.
She said it looked as
pretty as a rainbow under the
water, and she went under a
second time.
She didn’t think
drowning was a terrible thing.
I
liked music, being in plays, and
horseback riding.
The horse my dad gave me
was “Hal.”
I was taking Edith home
with me after I was married.
Hal was a tame horse, but
he must have heard a rattler,
because he started running.
I had Edith in front of
me.
I held her with one hand
and the reins with the other.
Hal didn’t pitch us
off.
He got to the big wooden
gate in front of our place and
stopped.
We didn’t get thrown
off!
When
I was nine in Kelsey, Texas, I
saw my first car.
It was the only car in
town.
I think it was a Ford.
It seemed like a miracle
in a way because I’d never
seen one before.
When I was twenty years
old, Paul, my husband, and his
brother, Will, and two
daughters, Pauline and Mildred,
were eating dinner.
The girls went outside to
get in to Uncle Will’s Ford
car, and Pauline started it up.
I heard it going.
Will and Paul jumped up
and ran outside.
The car was almost to the
road.
Will ran after it and
caught them as they got started
down the road.
Will asked Pauline where
she was going and she said she
was taking her baby sister “to
townie to get some canny.”
It frightened us all!
Two little kids in a car
all alone, going to town,
driving it!
When
I was twenty-two years old, I
wanted to drive our car, a Ford,
but Paul didn’t want me to
learn to drive.
I got in our car, and my
brothers, Weldon and Orlan, were
sitting in the
back seat hollering
around, “Do this!” and “Do
that!” with the gears or
something, trying to tell me
what to do, and of course, they
got me all excited.
There was a wooden gate
not too far from the road, and I
drove into the wooden gate and
swung it out a little bit and
knocked it down.
That’s the only
accident I ever had with a car,
and I wouldn’t have had that
if my two brothers hadn’t
hollered around.
They didn’t know Paul’s
brother, Will, had already
taught me how to drive.
I used to drive from our
place, Independence, North
Dakota, about seven miles to La
Moure, North Dakota, to get
groceries.
I wouldn’t dare drive
it when Paul was around.
He thought I’d kill
myself and everybody else
around.
Oh,
about the washing…We had
bluing balls about the size of
marbles that were dissolved in
the rinse water to keep the
clothes whiter.
Bluing also came in
bottles.
And sometimes, it was so
cold that the clothes would
freeze and get stiff when we
hung them out on the line.
I never got cold. Generally everyone worked
up a sweat rubbing the washboard
and we liked being outside for a
change to cool off.
We didn’t seem to catch
colds much.
When
we lived in Boise, Idaho, Paul
had squirrels that were his
friends in trees and talking
magpies in a cage.
He put peanuts in his
shirt pocket and sat down on the
lawn chair.
The squirrels jumped on
his shoulder or climbed up on
his chest and took the nuts out,
cracked the shells, spit out the
shell, and ate the nuts.
The magpie talked a lot.
He’d say “Open the
door, Richard!”
and repeated words we
said.
One of our magpies called
Nola when she went to school and
laughed like her.
That magpie was so tame,
and a real old pet.
We let him in the house
and he would blink his old eye
and ruffle his wings and run
after our feet.
His old black beak was
thick and sharp so we tried to
keep out of his reach.
He couldn’t fly because
Paul clipped his wings.
We used to tell him that
he was nothing but a loon, and
he’d say “No Sir!” over
and over.
He could whistle and
laugh.
A reporter from the
newspaper came out once and he
got afraid and wouldn’t talk.
The reporter waited
behind the grape vines until he
talked.
The reporter said “I’ll
put this in the paper, but no
one will believe it.”
He took pictures of
Maggie and left.
Paul said those jabbering
birds were named after me.
One
day I was hanging out clothes at
Boise.
One of Paul’s squirrels
came up behind me, jumped on my
leg by my ankle, bit me, and
hung on while I was trying to
kick him off.
I was yelling to Paul to
get that squirrel off my leg,
and it finally let go and ran.
It was really scared, and
I was mad!
I had been whirling
around on one leg with the other
leg held out with the squirrel
on it and got dizzy.
Paul always thought his
squirrels were angels, but he
locked that one up and called
him “Hitler!”
I
also stepped off the playhouse
step we had in the back yard and
sprained my ankle.
I had to be laid up for
about a week.
Nola and I drew pictures
together, read books, and made
doll clothes.
The playhouse was covered
with hop vines.
Paul built it out of
wooden four inch slats.
When
I was thirty-four, Pauline, my
daughter, wanted me to be in a
pageant there in Boise.
We were in different
scenes together.
In one scene we met the
first locomotive and waved
handkerchiefs at it.
A movie was being made of
this called the “Gay Nineties.”
I was the main lady
character and the man was a real
show cowboy.
I sat by him in an old
bunk board in the front seat. He was driving a team of
four horses, pretty dappled gray
horses.
They had that prance.
You know, regular show
horses.
He sang songs to me and I
had a big handkerchief I waved
from side to side to people
watching as we went around the
circle.
They had a style show.
We dressed up in full
long skirts and long sleeved
blouses of the gay nineties
style.
We stood and showed them
to the crowd.
We danced too.
When
I was fourteen years old, we
were on the homestead in the
Bull Mountains, west of
Billings, Montana.
Papa and Mama lived there
two years because the climate
was so dry and crops wouldn’t
grow. When I was fourteen, I
met Paul Emil Gottfried
Schwartz, age twenty-two, born
February 12, 1892.
I weighed 113 pounds and
he weighed 165 pounds.
He was six feet tall and
I was five feet two inches tall.
He was born in Lakefield,
Minnesota to Wilhelm Schwartz
and Augusta Schultz.
I was living on the
homestead in the Bull Mountains
when Paul came over to have some
plow shears sharpened by my dad.
Then he kept coming over
to see me after that. We didn’t go very many
places.
There on the homestead,
there was hardly any place to
go.
Paul came to see me at
the house mostly.
We went to a dance once.
It was a Halloween party
thing, at the community hall.
My girlfriend, Mabel Mass
and I dressed up as two little
girls in blue. Paul couldn’t dance,
just was stomping on my feet
most of the time.
When
Paul would come over, the whole
family played games, cards most
of the time.
Paul would make a platter
of chocolate fudge and we’d
have nuts sometimes.
We had a phonograph and
we’d listen to music.
Sometimes Papa would read
stories to us, sometimes out of
the Bible, and sometimes Western
stories.
Paul lived two miles from
us.
This was in the Bull
Mountains in Montana.
We sat and talked quite a
bit.
There were no movies or
eating places way up there.
Not many people lived
there, you know.
So we had our dates at
home.
No!
I never went to his
house.
No!
I didn’t go over and
date him!
He
lived in a log cabin alone.
It was one big room
petitioned off with a white
cloth for the bedroom and
kitchen.
He raised potatoes and
had a good sized potato cellar.
We didn’t have
telephones either, or indoor
toilets or bathtubs.
The nearest town was
twenty-eight miles to get
groceries and supplies. I was sixteen and Paul
was twenty-five when we got
married June 29, 1917 at
Billings, Montana.
When were going together
dating, we never went out to eat
or to the neighbors to eat.
Paul courted me two years
and came over about once a week.
Papa and Mama didn’t
have beds enough for people to
stay overnight unless they’d
sleep on the floor.
I got three other
proposals and I don’t know
why.
I didn’t pay any
attention to them.
They proposed after Paul
did, and I told them I was
already asked for, engaged.
Mama
and Edith went with Paul and me
to get married.
I was only sixteen, so
Paul’s old bachelor friend
went with us so Mama and he
could witness the wedding.
We all went to Billings
to get a hotel room to stay in
overnight before we went home.
The preacher married us
in the hotel room. I wore a silver-colored
dress with a gold collar.
Paul wore a small black
and white checked suit, if I
remember right.
After the wedding, we
went out to take pictures in a
studio and out to eat at an
eating place.
Then Mama, Edith, Paul
and I went up to the hotel room
and waited ‘til it was time to
go to bed.
Then we all slept in the
same room.
We went to Paul’s folks
in La Moure, North Dakota for
our honeymoon for one week.
This was the first time I’d
ever seen his dad, Wilhelm, or
his two brothers, Edward and
William, or his two sisters,
Lena and Louise.
Paul’s mother, Augusta,
had been dead about ten years.
Paul said she committed
suicide.
Paul’s dad talked
German all the time.
A party was given for us
by the Allens at one of Paul’s
friends places.
We played games and ate.
We stayed at Will’s
place mostly, and at Allen’s.
All my family and Paul
and I moved eight months later
to Missouri.
Edith
Pauline, my daughter, was born
June 19, 1918 in Longlane,
Missouri.
Her birth took four hours
and she weighed nine pounds.
When Pauline was a baby,
Paul and I got the flu, but she
didn’t get it.
That’s when Will came
from North Dakota to take care
of us.
Will was six feet tall.
He spoke both English and
German.
Oh,
I forgot to mention our first
place.
After Paul and I married,
our first house was a log cabin.
I have a picture of it
with Paul standing in the
doorway with a rolling pin in
his hand.
Paul lived in this log
cabin about three years before
we were married.
He trapped gophers.
He had polio in his right
arm and was crippled some.
This happened when he was
eighteen years old.
He always wondered if it
was caused by all the flies that
used to crawl on the food back
then.
Our
second house was a big two story
one.
Eight miles out of
Lovell, Wyoming, Paul trapped
skunks and other hide animals to
sell.
He raised wheat in North
Dakota about three years, but
that crop failed due to dry
weather, so the droughts we have
now are not new to me.
Then we moved to Oklahoma
where Paul raised a cotton crop.
The bank where our money
was went broke, so we had to
move to Lovell, Wyoming. We had four children
then; Pauline, Mildred, Ruby and
Norma.
We moved out eight miles
north of Lovell to Powell,
Wyoming and Paul raised sugar
beets in 1925 where Jack and
Nola were born.
All my children were born
at home.
All my babies had black
hair at birth, so there weren’t
any bald-headed ones.
We had that flu for a
week and Will did all the
washing, cooking and necessary
work.
Remember this was when
Pauline was born in 1918.
She was my first baby.
After
that, we moved to La Moure,
North Dakota, where Paul farmed
wheat and grain.
Annie Mildred was born
July 18, 1919 there.
She weighed eight and a
half pounds.
The doctor always came
out to the house. Mildred’s birth took
sixteen hours, and she was an
instrument baby.
I nursed all my babies
and they were all plenty healthy
and fat.
Pauline
and Mildred were in the same
room in the first grade and the
teacher asked them what they had
to eat at home.
Mildred raised her hand
and said, “Nothin’ but
potato soup and pun’kin pie!”
She didn’t like these
things.
Then Pauline told her
what we really had to eat.
Ruby
Lucille was born February 8,
1922 at La Moure, North Dakota.
She was two months
premature and was an instrument
baby like Mildred. When Ruby was three
months old, I got the flu again.
My fingernails turned
blue.
I weaned Ruby because I
thought I was going to die. Oh,
Ruby weighed eight pounds and
her birth took eight hours.
When I went in to labor,
my brother, Marion, was staying
with us and going to school, and
he went to get the doctor.
Then
we went to Blocker, Oklahoma,
where we stopped for a short
time on our way to Massy,
Oklahoma. Norma LaVaughn was born
in Blocker, September 23, 1923.
She weighed nine pounds
and it took seven hours of
labor.
It was a stormy night.
My dad and mother and
Edith were there.
This is where we raised
the cotton crop.
We lived in Quentin,
Oklahoma for a while.
Then
we moved to Powell, Wyoming
where Jack William, our only
son, was born, November 12,
1925.
He weighed eight and one
half pounds and took eight hours
to deliver.
Paul thought he had the
world by the tail with A BOY!
We
moved to the Keggie Place and
farmed grain in Powell, Wyoming
where Nola Sylvia was born July
5, 1933.
She was the smallest
baby.
She weighed seven and one
half pounds.
Our doctor was sitting by
me and I dug my toes into his
ribs and he said it was all
right for me to dig harder if I
felt like it.
In one hour she was
delivered.
Our dog, Poodle, crawled
out from under the bed and
looked up at the baby.
We didn’t know he was
hiding there and the nurse said
“Now I’ve seen everything!”
World
War
II came and Jack went in
to the service at age eighteen. I think it was in 1943.
He was in Italy and flew
forty-one missions over the
enemy.
I prayed for his safety
and was assured that he would
return safe and unharmed.
He did.
The
World War II depression came and
we moved to Parma in 1934. My
father and mother, Marion, Orlan,
Weldon and Edith were in Parma,
Idaho.
Vivian lived in Apple
Valley.
I had supervised a sewing
room in Powell before we moved
to Parma for eighteen dollars a
week.
We stayed in Parma one
winter and then moved to Boise,
Idaho in 1935.
Paul, Pauline and Mildred
built our house in Boise in
October, 1936.
We camped in a tent, used
a square can with oil as a
heater to keep warm, and it
snowed two inches on Halloween
night.
This house had seven
rooms, an upstairs and a cellar.
There were frogs and mice
in that cellar.
Paul’s
first job was spraying trees and
yards.
Paul bought a spray truck
and equipment and did commercial
spraying.
He always sprayed the
Mormon Church grounds free of
charge. He listened to the ward
teachers and believed in doing
right.
He was honest and good.
We didn’t have much to
eat during depression times.
Sometimes we had oatmeal,
gravy and dried prunes.
We couldn’t get any
work for a while, and we had to
stand in line to get food like
cheese, rice, butter, bread,
potatoes and milk at a
government commodity place once
a week.
They allotted people just
so much to live on depending on
the number of people in the
family. Fifty cents a day was
good wages then. There were lots of
hardships and trials.
If it hadn’t been for
those commodities, we would have
gone hungry because work was
scarce. In fact, there weren’t
any jobs for many people.
Oh,
and when I had that flu when
Ruby was a baby, I could pinch
myself and couldn’t feel it.
That’s how close I was
to death’s door.
And when I was telling
about Mama liking cold potatoes,
I forgot to mention that Papa
would
eat horehound candy.
That was his favorite.
This
is a car accident that happened
in 1922.
Paul and I and three
children, Pauline, Mildred and
Ruby, who was a baby, were going
to LaMoure, North Dakota to get
groceries.
Paul looked backwards at
some soldiers’ tents that were
pitched by the road, and the car
went off the road and in to a
ditch and turned over.
Now who was it that said
I shouldn’t drive because I’d
kill myself and everyone around?
Paul had a hot oil heater
between the seats because he
thought the children should be
kept warm constantly.
It was a wonder that
heater didn’t burn the car up
and everyone in it, but it didn’t
hurt anyone.
Several soldiers came
running to help and turned the
car upright and we started out
again. Paul was very excited and
shook all over.
And
that log cabin we lived in when
we were first married in 1917
had no push-button gadgets or
luxuries like we have today.
We had a table and
chairs, an old iron bed, and had
nothing like a washer.
It wouldn’t have done
any good anyway because there
wasn’t any electricity.
Today there is plenty of
electrical gadgets, but if the
electricity went off today,
1980, we still couldn’t cook,
we’d get cold, and we’d have
no lights,
and couldn’t wash
clothes or flush the toilet
unless we had some of those
old-fashioned
things to do it with.
What we had to do when we
got cold was chop down a tree,
mainly pine, split the logs and
bring in the wood and start a
fire in the wood stove.
That’s where we cooked
and baked cakes and roasts.
We burned kerosene lamps
when it got dark and took baths
in wash tubs.
Of course we wouldn’t
let anyone see us.
Pauline
was about two and a half and ran
out to the chicken house.
She was throwing eggs
everywhere and breaking them and
making a big mess! We heard eggs slamming
against the hen house walls and
Paul got up from the table and
ran out and found out what she’d
done.
He was so tender-hearted
and didn’t want her to get a
whipping, so he told her to
pretend she was trying while he
slapped on a board good and
hard.
She did it.
We
played jacks, high water jump
rope, and hopscotch at recess
time at school when I was a
girl.
We took fried chicken in
a lunch bucket and I ate at my
own desk.
We raised fryers on the
farm and the kids at school
wondered how I could have so
much chicken in my lunch.
I always got 100 percent
on spelling, grammar and art,
and got good passing grades on
the rest.
I walked two and a half
miles each way to school and
back on the homestead, but in
Billings town I walked only four
blocks.
The snow got so deep
sometimes that if we walked off
the pathway, we’d bog down in
the snow hip deep.
In
North Dakota, after I was
married, we had three days and
three nights of a snow blizzard
and couldn’t get out of the
house.
It was so bad it was just
like pouring a sack of flour in
your face.
After it lulled a little,
we could go out to feed the
chickens, pigs and horses.
Paul had a wire he hooked
on the corner of the house so he
could get out to feed them.
He’d put his hand on
the wire and follow it to the
chicken house and to the place
where the stock was.
He’d do this when the
blizzard was so bad he couldn’t
see.
The blizzard covered up
the neighbor’s chicken house
and got so deep they couldn’t
see their horses.
They didn’t find their
horses ‘til the next spring
when it thawed.
They had fallen through
deep snow drifts and one was
frozen in a tree.
All the horses were
frozen.
There
were ten to fifteen foot snow
drifts in our yard in North
Dakota at times.
The snow plow came by
every day to get the roads open
for people to travel.
Until I was eight years
old, I traveled places by horse
and buggy.
That’s the way we went
places when we didn’t walk.
One night there was a
blizzard, a big old blizzard of
blowing snow and the door was
open on the back porch and a
great big wagon load of snow
blew in through the keyhole in
the kitchen during the night. That’s what we got up
to in the morning.
There was plenty of snow
on the porch and it had to be
shoveled out so we could get out
of the house.
Paul did the shoveling.
Papa
was Scotch Irish and Mama was
English.
I think Papa had some
Indian by the way his mother
looked.
She was big framed, tall,
black-haired, dark brown eyes,
and high cheek boned.
Papa’s father was six
feet tall, a good sized man.
Paul’s
dad was a little shortie, about
five feet six inches tall.
He was small boned with
blue eyes and gray hair.
Paul’s mother had black
hair, brown eyes and a robust
build.
After
we moved to Boise, Paul enjoyed
going to the Paul Owen’s
Auction Sale, fishing at Lake
Lowell, and having grandchildren
come over.
We’d go in the morning
to the auction sale, eat there,
and stay ‘til it was over. He’d buy boxes full of
dishes, books, and things for
fifty cents.
The auctioneer would ask
me to play a piece on the piano
so people could hear what it
sounded like before he auctioned
it.
We’d catch bullheads at
lake Lowell, sometimes gunny
sacks full!
If
it rained or lighteninged or the
cold wind blew, I’d stand out
and fish anyway because fish
kept biting just the same.
I’d half freeze to
death and still catch a bunch of
fish.
Paul would sit in the car
and eat sandwiches and drink pop
and couldn’t understand why I
wouldn’t come to the car.
He thought I’d get
sick, but I never did.
I just got catching fish.
We’d take the fish
home, skin them, and Paul liked
them fried in butter. He liked soft fried
chicken, potatoes,
onion-vinegar-gravy that tasted
sweet and sour, Kool-Aid, apple
pie, donuts, cakes, ice cream
and coffee.
But he started drinking
Postum instead of coffee because
he couldn’t sleep nights and
stayed awake.
The doctor told him he
would sleep better if he quit
coffee.
He did.
When
we were fishing by Cougar
Mountain Lodge, he got mad
because the fish weren’t
biting and he threw his new
fishing pole and gear in to the
river and couldn’t fish any
more that day ‘cause he didn’t
have anything to fish with.
There
were a lot of seagulls at Lake
Lowell outlet and when they flew
over me I got nervous.
We fished one day in the
afternoon and it got very dark.
The wind was blowing
pretty bad but we kept on
fishing anyway.
It was a tornado, but we
didn’t know it ‘til we got
back to Boise and found out all
the damage it had done.
It tore up campers and
trees.
Papa
and Mama lived a little ways out
of Parma, Idaho.
Papa was eighty years old
and took care of Mama for years.
She was bedridden.
Papa raised flowers, a
big garden, and I used to eat
raw peanuts out of his garden.
The peanuts grew in the
sandy soil under the ground and
we’d pull them up.
My
niece’s husband, she is Ova
Johnson, the one who gave me the
genealogy sheet of Papa’s
family, her husband is Talmage
Johnson, and he flew over Papa’s
house in Parma and lost his
glasses out of the window of the
plane.
He told Papa he guessed
he’d never see them again, but
Edith’s girl, Joyce, and Nola
found them in a straw pile,
unbroken.
Papa and Mama took care
of Joyce and Carol Ann about
three years after Edith died.
When
Joyce was about four years old,
she got some scissors and cut
off some of Papa’s mustache.
When she was about eight
years old, she got up in the
middle of the night, about two
in the morning, started a big
roaring fire in the wood stove,
and started mixing up what she
called a cake!
I don’t know how much
sugar she used, but she used
entirely too much—and the
eggs!
About a dozen!
And a bottle of food
coloring, red it was, and she
was just mixing up a whole bunch
of lob-lolly stuff together and
Papa woke up.
He went in to the kitchen
fast and asked her what she was
doing.
He opened the door to let
the hot air out of the house and
she said she was making a cake
to surprise everybody in the
morning.
Soon as Papa saw the
mess, he said “This junk you’ve
got mixed up looks like a bunch
of bull blood!”
And he told her she had
wasted so much good food and
throwing away money over nothing
that didn’t amount to a thing,
and she could have burned the
house down and everybody in it.
He gave her a doggone
good spanking and sent her to
bed.
No one got a surprise but
her—and right where it
counted.
His mustache was cut off
by that little dickens when he
was asleep.
One
night after dark, Papa was
getting ready for bed.
He turned off the lamp
light and he stepped back to
where he thought the bed was and
sat down on the floor instead,
causing internal hemorrhaging.
He lived three weeks and
went in to a coma. It was about two weeks
before he died. Every time I’d leave
the room he’d call for me to
come back in there with him,
even though he was in a coma.
He died in October like
Paul did.
My mother came to live
with us soon after Papa died.
She liked to eat stewed
prunes for her health.
Mama lived with us for a
year and a half, and lived two
years after Papa died. She gave her wedding ring
to Nola, but someone stole that
ring and my wedding ring from my
dresser drawer one day when we
were at town getting groceries.
I sure would like to have
caught the thief.
I would have bawled them
out and asked them if they had
any good sense. Wouldn’t you?
Mama died of asthma of
the heart, and was buried in
Parma, Idaho beside Papa.
I have a picture of Mama
standing by Papa’s grave.
Edith is buried at the
foot of Papa and Mama.
We all loved Edith so
much.
When
we lived on the Keggie place in
Powell, Wyoming, when Jack was
nine, I think, one of Mr. Keggie’s
sons brought his dog over to our
place and when he got there he
said he brought that old
good-for-nothing dog over to
whip Poodle, our dog.
Jack claimed Poodle, and
Norma said it was her dog too. Mr. Keggie’s son had a
pitch fork over his shoulder.
Both dogs were about the
same size.
The old boy tried to get
his dog to fight Poodle, but he
couldn’t.
His dog was scared of
Poodle and wouldn’t go near
him.
So this old boy pushed
his dog over to Poodle, and
Poodle took him by the nape of
the neck and drug him to an
irrigation ditch of water and
Poodle put one paw over the top
of this old dog’s head and
held him down under the water…
was drowning him!
That old boy told me I’d
better make Poodle turn loose of
his old dog or he’d stick
Poodle with the pitch fork.
I told him if he stuck
either dog with that pitch fork
it had better be his own!
And I had to tell Poodle
pretty stern three or four times
to leave that dog alone before
he’d let loose of him.
Then that old Keggie boy
went home with a different
attitude.
He found out his old dog
couldn’t begin to whip Poodle.
I
had Poodle maybe four years and
one morning when the school bus
stopped to pick our children up
for school, the bus ran over
him.
The kids didn’t know
about it ‘til after school.
Jack dug a grave and made
a cross of two boards and wrote
the words “Poodle Dog Schwartz”
on it.
Jack buried Poodle in our
back yard.
It was almost like losing
a member of our family because
Poodle was so human-like.
He’d play
hide-and-go-seek with both Norma
and Jack.
He’d hide and they’d
hide.
They’d hunt each other.
He was the best watch dog
we ever had.
He was the dog that came
crawling out from under the bed
when Nola was born.
He laid under there and
heard the whole rig-a-ma-row. We could trust him
anytime with leaving the kids
any time of the day or night.
He wouldn’t let
anything happen to the little
babies.
He’d have to be killed
first.
Evan,
my oldest brother, came over one
night when Paul and I had gone
to a show and left all the kids
there at the house with Poodle.
Poodle was inside the
house looking out a window pane
in the door, and he growled and
gnashed his teeth when Evan came
to the door.
So Evan got scared and
ran back to his car.
Evan said that dog would
have killed him, he knew, if he
had opened that door and that
dog could have got at him!
I could trust Poodle with
any baby.
You betcha!
Sure could!
Jack,
being the only boy, had someone
to play with all the time.
Norma played with him all
the time.
They got along real good
together.
Jack would be the horse
and Norma would take hold of the
reins and guide him. I never let any of my
children go near water.
I was scared they’d
drown.
But they probably got
near that dangerous place when I
didn’t know about it.
My children listened to
what I said and minded what I
told them, generally.
When
we lived in Boise, I liked to
wear big flowered hats.
I had several different
ones.
So many people wore them
then.
Some had pink and white
or red or shades of green.
One of my grandchildren
came over one day and saw me
wearing my real wide brimmed
black hat with pink and white
flowers in a large cluster on
the top.
She started screaming.
In nearly scared her half
to death.
I
like fried chicken, tuna fish
sandwiches, peanut butter by the
spoonfuls, or on bread, peas,
fresh tomatoes, buttermilk, ice
cream, corn bread, and all
candy.
I don’t like asparagus,
apple pie, zucchini, squash, or
ugh!, sweet milk.
And oh!
Old avocados!
I can’t stand them!
Deer meat makes me sick.
I can stand it if it is
made in to jerky.
I used to sew, tat by the
dozens of yards, quilt, fish,
play horseshoes by the hour, and
now I scan do without them…
any of them.
I liked to raise gardens,
cook, can and store everything I
could get, pick berries,
especially raspberries and
gooseberries, make grape juice,
homemade bread and butter, dill
pickles, and now I don’t care
to do any of it.
I liked to ride horses,
but now I don’t care about
that either.
I just changed from when
I was younger.
My
eye sight is good. I guess my heart is good
enough for my seventy-nine
years.
I liked to write poems,
mostly in the night time.
One of my grandsons and I
helped each other write the
words to a song one night. I helped him a little
bit.
He thought of most of the
words.
I think the song is real
cute.
It starts out “When the
crickets start to chirpin’ and
the frogs start to croakin’,
but the frogs are a-chokin’ on
their tongues all night long.”
I guess that’s the
right words.
He’s in Louisiana on a
mission right now, so he knows
if that’s right.
I think some of it goes
like this, “Well the night
sounds stop, and the bees take
it over, and the people get up
and they run all over.
That’s the sounds of
the nighttime.
The night that follows
day.
And when the sun comes
up, they all end the same way as
they did the night before.”
He asked me if “yellow
moon” sounded okay.
I told him I thought “mellow
moon” was good, so he wrote it
out that way. Some of my poems got
thrown away, but I still have
some of them, and I’ll see
they get copied with this
history.
I
like to draw pictures, mainly of
birds and little animals, but
right now I like to do cross
word puzzles, play dominoes and
cards.
One of my great
granddaughters showed us a card
trick and I can’t for the life
of me figure out it can work
every time, but it does.
I love all my children
and their children and great
grandchildren. Some of the names Paul
started calling our children
were “Buster,” “Sote,”
“Scruck,” “Whangdoodle,”
“Horkiesnorkie,” “Hoonkiepoonkie,”
“Woosiegoosie,” and “Bug.”
I made up the name “Baby
Doll” for one.
I
like “Gunsmoke” on
television, but not just any
kind of those silly ones…
those no account things. I like Festus, and Matt
Dillon, and Kitty.
I like cats in their
place, but as I said before, I
don’t like them in the house.
And that’s the truth!
They ruin about
everything.
I’ve been called the
Grim Reaper because of stray
cats.
I try to get the last
whack at them.
My
hair used to be coal black, but
what hair I have left is white.
When Jack was a baby, I
had lots of toothaches, so I had
them pulled by a dentist in
Lowell, Wyoming.
I had them pulled as fast
as I could.
He wouldn’t pull more
than ten teeth at a time.
He numbed my gums with a
needle, but I could still feel
them good and proper then he
pulled them.
The dentures? I am doggone glad I’ve
got them so I don’t have to go
through toothaches again.
I don’t know what a
headache is.
I’ve never had one.
Not even when I was
helping in the nursery at Relief
Society in 1974 and 1975.
I was seventy-three years
old then and I helped take care
of fourteen children ages one
and two for seven months.
I never even had a
headache when I had that
terrible old flu in 1922.
I used to baby-sit quite
a bit too.
I had a child care
license back when I was about
forty-five years old.
I had that old stomach
ulcer years ago for fourteen
years. I never did go on any
kinds of food to get rid of it.
It didn’t stay.
My
second toe next to the big one
on my right foot reminds me of a
hard old rooster spur.
It’s so thick, it has
to be filed off, and I can’t
cut it with the scissors.
It sure is an ugly sight!
My
great grandson was visiting one
afternoon and when we were on
our way to visit Ruby in the
nursing home at Wendell, he kept
staring at my face.
He was standing between
Nola and I on the front seat.
He asked me what those
lines were on my face. I said they were wrinkles
and that it was too long a story
to tell right then, but that I
was writing it down, so he would
know the answer to the next
question he asked, “Where did
you get them?” Now you all know!
I
have six children and so many
grandchildren and great
grandchildren that I lost count
long ago. The count changes every
year.
I just want them all to
know that I have never smoked
cigarettes, or never taken a
drink of liquor in any way,
shape or form, and I have never
taken a drug unless the doctor
said it was absolutely necessary
for my ulcer, and I am in good
health at the age of
seventy-nine, and my future
plans are to stay that way!
I don’t have heart
trouble, kidney trouble, blood
problems or anything that is
bad.
I get plenty of rest, and
do all I can during the day to
get exercise, and eat the right
kinds of foods.
October
26, 1980 is when this next part
was told.
In Boise, Paul planted
apple, prune, cherry, pear,
peach and walnut trees.
He also planted grapes
and poplar trees, and some lilac
bushes, roses and tulips.
He had some plants,
hens-and-chickens, in the front
flower bed, but the kids stepped
on them quite a lot, so he
bought some needles and stuck
them in the ground among the
plants.
The kids stopped walking
in that garden.
He had those plants
inside a rubber tire.
He thought a lot of all
his plants and flowers,
especially his tulips.
That was his favorite.
I
canned all the fruits and
vegetables we raised so we could
have food storage, but some of
the jars got so old that we had
to empty them out.
It pays to use up canned
goods each year while its fresh
and good. I found out that jars get
spoiled if they are in too hot a
place.
They are no account, and
the lids have to be sealed tight
and right.
We also canned more than
we needed.
That is some reasons for
food spoiling.
When
we first lived in Boise, we had
a coal wood stove we cooked on.
In two years, we bought
an electric stove, so I canned
on both kinds.
I had a pressure cooker.
I’ve canned enough jars
to fill up rooms and rooms in my
lifetime.
I can’t even begin to
imagine how many loaves of bread
I’ve baked, dishes I’ve
washed, or how many diapers I’ve
changed!
Bet that would be a
sight!
Well,
I can remember when we first
moved there to Boise, we got
hamburger for five pounds for
twenty-five cents, eggs at eight
cents a dozen, day-old bread was
five cents for a good sized
loaf, and I know the clothing
was so much cheaper it wasn’t
funny. We used to get real good
shoes for one dollar a pair.
I remember that. It’s crazy, but I can’t
remember much else about the
prices of things.
But when I was a little
girl in Billings, Montana, shows
were five cents for children.
They were decent shows
then.
At the Boise Drive In,
shows were one dollar a car
load.
We went to “Tom Sawyer,”
“Wizard of Oz,” “Cinderella,”
and “Alice in Wonderland.”
We took the grandkids to
them.
We went to all the Roy
Rogers shows, and then there
used to be a show called “Wagon
Train” that was a good western
show, and then there were scary
shows.
“Frankenstein” was
one of them.
Then there was “The
Mummy,” “Werewolf,” and
“Dracula.”
They were crazy, funny
shows with scary things in them.
The
shows then were clean. They didn’t have all
this old sex junk in them.
We went to quite a few
Shirley Temple shows too.
It might have been about
twenty-five cents for grown ups
at matinee, but no more than
forty cents at night.
I think that if parents
let their kids go to all those
old crazy kinds of sexy shows
like so many of them do
nowadays, they can expect them
to turn out pretty bad kids.
Parents ought to say “Go
to clean shows, or not any at
all.”
I wouldn’t go to one of
those dirty, filthy things
nowadays.
They are sure no good
example for anybody to see.
Parents
should read good, clean, decent
stories.
And I think families
should do things together as
much as possible.
I think each member of
the family should have jobs to
do a piece.
Usually girls and women
do dishes, but boys and men help
sometimes, and it’s right to
do that, because it doesn’t
matter who gets the work done.
What matters is that it
gets done!
In case of a baby being
sick, the other members of the
family should help the mother
take care of the work around the
place.
Children
shouldn’t be allowed to run
around alone at night, and
should be in the house before
dark.
I think children should
be brought up from babyhood to
mind.
Do what needs to be done!
If they won’t listen by
talking to them, then give it to
them as hard as they need it,
where it counts!
Some kids need it harder
than others.
I never had to do a whole
lot of spanking with my kids
because they minded.
But I spanked them if
they needed it, you betcha!
Before
the television came, we just had
the radio to listen to.
That was our
entertainment as well as anyone
who wanted to play a musical
instrument, and we’d sing
together and have a good time.
A person would be a lot
better off if they didn’t turn
TV on unless there’s a clean
show like Lawrence Whelk.
I wouldn’t care if they
threw the whole shebang in the
ocean!
Ruby
and I went by plane from Boise
to visit Pauline and Dwight and
children.
It was a nice trip.
That was the first and
only time we’d ever been in a
plane.
Well, you wouldn’t
hardly know you were moving
because it was going along so
smooth.
Everything looked pretty
down below like a patchwork
quilt.
Other places looked like
it was marble.
I used to think I’d be
scared to go, but I wasn’t a
bit afraid.
Jack says going in a big
plane is the safest way to
travel… a lot safer than by
car… but that the little
planes are dangerous.
I
took a few trips in the train.
I went in a ferry boat
from Seattle to Bremerton,
Washington, and I felt safe
enough and was always glad to
get to where I was going.
Going on the bus once to
Pauline’s, there was a big old
Negro man and a little one, and
they sat in the same seat.
The road was up pretty
high on a mountain side, because
the trees looked small, like
toys, below us.
The big man said, “Bus
driver, slow down!
We’re going pretty fast
around here, and if this bus
tips over, we’ll never see
daylight again!”
He ducked down between
the seats and asked the little
man if he had his prayer book
along, and said, “If we ever
needed to pray, this is the
time.
Bother, let’s make
peace with the Lord!” I wasn’t afraid.
I knew they had good bus
drivers.
We’d
have Christmas with more than
one family.
We opened our gifts on
Christmas Eve.
My folks always opened
them on Christmas morning, but
Paul’s folks opened them on
Christmas Eve.
Paul made a table and
chair set, and lawn chairs too.
We always had lots of
good food for Christmas dinner,
but not during the Depression
times.
We’d put up a tree a
few days before Christmas and
decorate it up pretty with
lights and icicles and fancy
ornaments.
We never let the lights
burn when we weren’t home
because that could burn the
place down.
Norma
used to get up early on Easter
morning and start hopping around
like an Easter bunny and hide
Easter eggs and colored hen
eggs.
We’d also hide eggs
outside for all the little kids
to find.
We used to have an old
rooster that jumped on us, and
he got the chopping block and
ended up where he belonged.
We
gave candy apples and sometimes
donuts to trick-or-treaters on
Halloween.
I remember Paul had a
chicken chopping block and he
had a hatchet ax with ketchup
around on it.
When the bigger kids came
trick-or-treating, Paul would
sit on that old chopping block
with the hatchet raised and say
“It’s your turn next!”
Some kids would run.
He liked to play tricks
on people.
When
Paul was still living at his
folks home, he tied a dead eagle
on to a rope and swung it around
in the dark to scare his dad.
His dad came out and saw
the thing
going around and didn’t
know what the thing was.
He thought it was a big
old bird, so we went back in the
house and got a gun and shot it!
When he came back out,
Paul swung it around and started
laughing.
That’s when Paul’s
dad found out Paul was pulling a
trick on him. He could think up the
goofiest things to pull.
I’m
going to tell this. Before we were married,
there was a fellow who wasn’t
married, an old bachelor, who
had a rooster who always woke
him up in the morning crowing.
So just for the fun of
it, Paul went over and swiped
that rooster when Mr. Banning,
the bachelor, was asleep, and
took it over to his place.
The next morning, Mr.
Banning didn’t hear his
rooster, so he went over that
day to visit Paul, and told him
how he missed his rooster waking
him up.
He said he knew his
rooster’s crow because it was
different than any rooster he
ever heard. Then he stayed all night
with Paul, and the next morning,
he heard his rooster crow. He
got up before daylight and found
his old rooster out there
crowing.
He said to Paul, “Paul!
You knew about this all
the time!
You stole my rooster!”
And Paul said, “Well
you’ve got to have a little
fun sometime.”
They both had a laugh
over that!
Oh!
Here’s another one I’m
going to tell.
Old Yoccup man, that’s
what they called him, when Paul
lived in Montana on the
homestead, this Old Yoccup boy
came to stay all night with Paul
and he had this little old dog
along with him.
Old Yoccup was always
used to sleeping with that old
dog, and Paul didn’t like the
idea of having to sleep anywhere
near that old dog. But he had to sleep with
him anyway, and Paul picked
fleas off his arm and quilt
cover, because they all slept in
the same bed.
During the night when
Paul thought Old Yoccup was
asleep, he got hold of what the
thought was the old dog’s
foot.
He yanked hard as he
could and tried to pull him out
of the bed.
He pinched the dog good
and hard, but he still didn’t
budge.
He tried to get him out
without Old Yoccup knowing about
it.
In the morning, the first
thing Old Yoccup told Paul was
“What were
you
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there,
even in the hot summer time.
We stored our potatoes
down there and all our canned
jars.
Straight out from the
back door was a dirt path that
went east about sixty feet to
the outdoor toilet.
Along the path to the
left was the wooden slat
playhouse Paul built and apple
trees, prune trees and grass.
I also had a clothesline
there.
To the right of the path
was grape vines that later
reached over and crawled in to
the apple trees and on to the
playhouse.
The playhouse was covered
with hop vines.
Also to the right were
clotheslines, cherry trees, a
garage Paul built, and lawn.
The path got real shady
and Paul used to sit under the
grapes on a wooden bench and eat
them in the hot summer.
There were plenty of
spider webs and bugs on those
grapes.
Behind the outdoor toilet
was an alley, and across that
was Mama’s and Papa’s home
with a garden and lots of
flowers.
I think they lived there
about two years somewhere near
1938.
They only had Joyce, not
Carol Ann.
Orlan and Winnie had her.
To
the south of their place was my
garden with about eighteen or
twenty 100 foot rows.
We planted sugar cane one
year and made sorghum molasses.
I had several rows of
raspberry bushes in that garden.
I would weed every day or
the weeds would take over the
plants and make them no account.
Mrs. Fell lived to the
south of our place and wouldn’t
work in a garden like I did.
She said I’d get a
sunstroke, but what I really got
was money from the store for
selling them my berries and
vegetables. Some people are doggone
lazy!
I
raised okra, watermelon,
cantaloupe, cucumbers, parsnips,
beets, carrots, corn, peas,
radishes, lettuce, turnips,
tomatoes, potatoes, and most
everything you can think of. Later on, Jack bought
that garden spot and he built
his home there and planted grass
and trees.
I liked to work in my
garden.
To
the right of the back door was a
sidewalk Paul made to the
garage.
This sidewalk went around
the south side of the house to
the front steps and out west to
the paper box where there was a
trellis of seven sisters roses,
and orange tiger lilies by the
road.
Paul stored his tools and
stuff in the garage, mostly
everything he collected over the
years.
Some of it was rusty and
most was greasy.
I could never make heads
or tails of anything in there.
If anything went wrong
with his spray truck, he’d run
it in there and mostly fixed it
himself.
Off the garage to the
south was a big room built on to
the garage with a shower and a
Maytag washing machine.
We generally took showers
and did our washing out there
for a while.
Boy, was it cold!
Paul
put a little old pot bellied
stove in there.
When the shirts went
through the wringer, sometimes
buttons would pop off.
I never got my hand in
that wringer, but I’ve heard
of women getting their hair
almost pulled clear out in the
wringer. There was another room to
the east connected to the shower
room where Paul put left over
lumber
and sawdust and boxes and
stuff.
The upstairs of our house
had two rooms.
I think we built this on
later.
One room was full of
boxes and stored things, and one
was a bedroom where Jack slept.
To
the south of the front sidewalk,
Paul had a trellis with American
Beauty
roses climbing on it and
a flower garden and poplar trees
and a driveway.
To the north of the
sidewalk in front was lawn,
poplar and walnut trees.
There was a swing in the
poplar tree.
To the far north past the
lawn was more land with a
basement house we rented out.
It had a black tar paper
roof.
Oh, there was a cherry
tree by the garage by my
clotheslines and the robins
messed up my washing I’d hang
out to dry when they ate
cherries.
That’s where old Hitler
the squirrel bit me.
Paul didn’t like any
other man on the place, only
relatives.
We
got the water to irrigate with
from a ditch north of the
basement house.
Mrs. Thomas lived about a
block away and her husband drank
too much.
One day the old fool
stole my irrigation water.
I just went over there
and she said it wouldn’t
happen again because he was
drunk and didn’t know what he
was doing.
I’m not one for
drinking liquor.
Not a bit!
I never allowed anything
like that.
Smoking is every bit as
bad.
They’ll both ruin your
health.
Paul quit smoking when
Nola was a year old and got
burned.
He just quit, and that
was all there was to it.
People can quit smoking
if they want to bad enough.
My
favorite movies are “Gone With
The Wind,” and “Man’s
Search For Happiness.”
I saw this last saw this
last movie with my sister,
Jessie, at Salt Lake at the
visitor’s center two years
before she died.
I really liked it.
I also like “It all
started with Thad,” and “I
need a friend.”
Paul
died October 11, 1966 of a heart
attack and kidney failure in
Council, Idaho where we were
visiting Mildred and Lewis.
Ruby and I lived in Boise
‘til 1968.
Then we moved to Nampa,
Idaho on Blaine Street.
While we were there, Jack
remodeled the house in Boise and
bought new furniture and
appliances.
We moved back in to it
and I never had such pretty
drapes like that before.
And the carpets and
kitchen and bathrooms and
bedrooms and all were just
beautiful.
It was nice enough for
any queen to live in.
The whole place was
beautiful.
Ruby and I lived there a
few years and then sold it and
moved to Nampa, Idaho, to live
with Nola and John.
Ruby’s health was bad
and she fell and broke her hip
and is now living at Magic
Valley Manor at Wendell, Idaho,
where she gets excellent care.
She is in a wheelchair
and can’t walk.
She never did marry.
Nola and I go visit her
once a week.
I
got my Patriarchal Blessing
February 14, 1951 from Henry G.
Labrum at Boise, the same time
Nola got hers.
This
next part was told November 3,
1980.
I’ve been in several
school and church plays when I
was a little kid.
I was about five years
old, and this is what I said in
a school play.
I acted it out:
“See
my pretty ruffled dress and
brand new slippers too.
I
think I look quite cute tonight,
I don’t know what you do.
Oh,
here’s my handkerchief all
bordered ‘round with blue.
Now
why can’t I blow my nose
enough just like my Papa do?
Some
folks, when they’ve said
enough, don’t know when to
stop or how.
So
I’ll put away my handkerchief
and make my little bow.”
One
good thing I did was deliver
Mrs. Washburn’s baby.
She lived across the
street from our place in Boise.
It was a girl and she
told me I could name it because
I delivered it. We named the baby
Kathleen.
Paul
always carried his wallet in his
hip pocket, and one day he found
he had lost it.
He told me about it and
said he had looked everywhere
and couldn’t find it.
So that night, I went out
to the chicken house to gather
the eggs and saw something
laying on the floor in the
straw.
It was his wallet.
It had over five hundred
dollars in it.
This was in Lovell,
Wyoming eight miles out at the
May Ranch.
Paul raised sugar beets
there, and we hauled them eight
miles to Lovell.
I guess we had about
twenty-five acres then.
Another
song I liked was “Hi and Si of
Jay Town.”
It’s pronounced “high
and sigh.”
It was on a record Paul
had before we were married.
Hi and Si had never been
to a circus and one day a circus
came to town and they went to
it.
I know how the words go:
“Way
last summer, I think it was in
May,
Ol’
Si Hubbard to me did say,
‘They
say there’s a circus comin’
to town.
Suppose
you and I go see the clown?’
So
we sold our barley, our oats and
our corn.
In
fact, we almost cleaned out our
barn.
And
with that money bought us two
new suits,
high
top hats, and red top boots.
And
when that circus came to town,
Si
and I were the first ones on the
ground.
Si
says to I, ‘Let’s go get
tight.
Tear
down the tents, Let’s start up
a fight.’
‘Not
much,’ says I, ‘We’ll
raise no feud.’
For
I was afraid of the old hayrube.
So
Si proposed some red lemonade,
some
goober peas for which I paid.
‘‘Twas
a jolly good cuss who kept that
store,’
we
thought when he asked us to have
some more.
‘Oh,
I like you boys for straight.
Don’t
stand back, for I’ll stand
treat.’
So
Si and I both pitched right in,
and
how we ate indeed was a sin.
But
when we turned to go away,
we
heard that gall darn sharker
say,
‘Four
dollars here, you rubes, don’t
wait!
Get
off to the sideshow or you’ll
be late.’
So
Si and I paid that cash like a
darn fool cuss
and
off to the sideshow we did rush.
The
sights we seen within that show
was
enough to turn your whiskers
green.
Tattooed
men all covered with ink.
A
dog-faced boy called a missing
link.
Si
didn’t know that a parrot
could talk,
‘til
he up and called him a country
gawk.
So
Si got mad and flew in a rage.
He
knocked that gall darn bird
clear out of his cage.”
That’s
all I remember of that, and it’s
probably a good thing.
If I had that record now,
it would probably be sixty-five
years old or more.
I
never wore pants.
Women and girls didn’t
wear pants back then.
About
1936, I had a miscarriage at
home.
I was three months along.
I fainted three times
before we got to the Boise
hospital.
I fainted two more times
after I got to the hospital from
loss of blood. I was so weak.
I stayed overnight and
went home the next day.
The doctor told me to be
careful for a year and take
right care of myself.
Mrs. Heister was a nurse
who lived across the road from
us and told me I was nearer
death’s door than I realized.
That was the first time I
was ever in a hospital.
I was glad to get out of
there.
I
learned to ride a bicycle after
I was married.
I didn’t ride much.
There were other things I’d
rather do than ride a bicycle.
My
favorite things?
There was nothing to
compare with my family. They were my very
favorite and I took care of them
right, feeding, clothing,
bathing and teaching them to do
right.
I taught them to be good
to other people, and take care
of their health, eat plenty of
vegetables, stay out of the road
where they could get run over,
and stay away from deep water,
unless they were at a swimming
pool with a lifeguard there.
I taught them not to run
away or take up with strangers
or they could get kidnapped.
Just mainly to stay home where
it’s safe.
There is no safer place
to be.
Another
record we had was “Foolish
Questions.”
I sing it to my
grandkids.
I love all my
grandchildren.
They come next to my own.
They are very dear to me.
This song has a lot of
truthful, funny meaning.
I think it’s a good
song to hear, not like that “Hi
and Si” thing.
I wouldn’t want my
grandkids listening to that,
because I don’t like fighting
or cussing.
My grandchildren ask me
to sing this song over and over.
Boy, I’ve heard lots of
songs that I won’t mention
here, but this is the “Foolish
Questions:”
“You’ve
heard of foolish questions, and
no doubt you’ve wondered why
A person who will ask them can
expect the same reply.
Would you ever take your girl a
box of candy after tea
And notice how she grabs it,
then says ‘Is this for me?’
Foolish
questions!
You can answer when you
can,
‘No, the candy’s for your
father or your mother or for
John, the hired man.
I just wanted you to see
it.
Now I’ll take it all
away.’
Now there’s a question
that you hear most every day.”
“And
then most every morning, there
is someone ‘round the place
who sees you take the shaving
brush and lather up your face.
And as you give the razor a
preliminary wave,
This fool will always ask you
‘Are you going to take a
shave?’
Foolish
questions!
And your answer is, I
hope,
‘No.
I’m really not prepared
at all for shaving, I just like
the taste of
soap!
I just like to take the shaving
brush and paint myself this way.’
Now there’s a question that
you hear most every day.”
“And
then you all have met the man
who stops you on your way,
And asks you where you’re
going, and listens while you
say,
‘I’m going to the funeral of
poor old Uncle Ned.’
As soon as you have told him, he
will say, ‘Why, is he dead?’
Foolish
questions!
And you might as well
reply
‘No!
He always thought at
first he’d have the funeral.
Then after a while he’d
die.
Uncle Ned was so
original.
He wanted it that way.
Now there’s a question
that you hear most every day.”
Oh,
I surely like singing and good
music.
Like songs that tell of
good things in life.
Not that old honky tonk,
hinky-dinky-rinky old mess, or
that junk that says the same
thing over and over again.
I can’t stand that
crazy old mess nowadays.
You know what I mean.
That Si and Hi song was
one of the worst ones in my time
back then.
Paul liked it because his
dad liked it.
When I turn on the TV and
see those old hippies jumping
around like they’ve got ants
in their pants and screaming
around I could pitch that whole
mess in the ocean too, because
it doesn’t amount to a thing
worthwhile.
I remember the church
songs Papa and Mama and all the
family used to sing together.
I liked those songs a
lot.
I like the songs the
grandchildren sing when they
come to visit us like that one
about grandma’s glasses or “I’m
a Mormon,” or “I Am a Child
of God,” and “The Spirit of
God Like a Fire is Burning,”
and “Oh How Lovely Was the
Morning,” and “Popcorn
Popping on the Apricot Tree.”
I
like to listen to them entertain
us when they stand on the
fireplace hearth and sing or
dance.
I especially like the
hula dancer.
Sometimes they go
downstairs and play the piano.
I like that too. And oh, the Donald Duck
talking is cute, and the
Saturday Warrior song is a
favorite of mine.
I have an adopted
granddaughter that I think so
much of.
All my children are very
dear to me.
We have some real piano
players in our family and good
singers.
I’ve seen some toot
around on horns and play
harmonicas and guitars.
And I’ve heard some
give extra good talks.
They all have natural
talents they were born
with.
I
never cared for those old
motorcycles.
They’re not safe to
ride around on.
I’ve played quite a bit
of horseshoes with real good
horseshoe players, and made
several ringers, even looking up
at the sky.
Papa and Mama liked the
idea of playing
horseshoes.
So did all my brothers.
Oh, what in the world is
the name of that song I like so
well?
I learned it while I was
visiting at Pauline’s.
Oh, it’s “If I Had My
Way.”
That’s a real pretty
song with a pretty tune.
“If
I had my way dear, forever there’d
be
A garden of roses for you and
me.
A thousand and one
things, dear, I would do.
All for you.
Just for you.
There’d
never be rain, and sunshine I’d
bring every day.
You’d reign all alone
Like a queen on a throne.
If I had my way.”
That’s
for all you kids I love so much.
This
part was told October 28, 1980.
Paul and I were walking
home from Papa’s place in
Montana.
It was two miles, and I
just got hungry.
We stopped at a bachelor’s
place, a log cabin.
It was a custom on the
homestead if anyone passed your
place and was hungry, they could
go in and eat what they wanted
whether anyone was home or not,
but they couldn’t take any
away.
The reason I got hungry
was because I was pregnant with
Pauline. No one was home at that
place and I saw a jar of peanut
butter, so I ate a few spoonfuls
of it.
Then we went home.
I still like peanut
butter and I
like to eat it between
meals or anytime.
I
always did like poetry and when
I was seventy years old, I
decided to see if I could write
a little. I’d write both day and
night.
Usually, I’d write
about snowflakes, my children,
or whatever came to mind.
Sometimes, I’d write
several pages of old song titles
so I wouldn’t forget how many
I used to know.
It’s easy to forget
things like songs if you don’t
write them down, because the
kinds of songs they sing
nowadays aren’t like the songs
they used to sing.
It’s easy to forget
your life story too.
I’ve found that out for
sure!
Sometimes I’ve sat four
hours a day trying to remember
this story.
And that went on for
weeks.
But you can remember if
you think hard enough.
There
was sense to the songs they used
to sing when I was a kid.
But the old silly songs
they sing nowadays have one or
two words they sing with a mess
of screaming and jumping around.
I told about this before,
but I want you to know I don’t
think that’s a bit cute.
All that jumping around
from side to side like their
pants were full of ants.
I feel like it’s a
waste of time to listen to that
doggone mess.
I’d
sing quite a bit when I was
doing my work around home.
I’d whistle the tunes a
lot when I sewed for my
children, like “Down By the
Old Mill Stream,” “The West,
A Nest, and You,” “When the
Snow Birds Cross the Valley,”
and “Let Me Call You
Sweetheart,” or “My Castle
in Spain.”
So we won’t forget this
pretty song, I’ll tell the
words now:
My
Castle In Spain
I’ve
found a way to be happy.
I’ve found a way to be free.
I’m not jealous of you.
But you’re going to be jealous
of me.
While
you’ve been dreaming of
millions
And a castle in Spain somewhere,
I’ve built myself a little
love nest
And I’ve found my happiness
there.
My
castle in Spain
Is a shack in the lane
My neighbors the birds and the
bees
The gold that I’ve won
Is the gold that I’ve spun
My song is the song of the
breeze.
A
cute little cradle swings down
from above
Where the birds come to sing all
their lullabies.
My castle in Spain
Is a shack in the lane.
IT IS HEAVEN TO SOMEONE AND ME.
That’s
why I write down these songs.
So we won’t forget
them.
I never did care for many
luxuries.
I was satisfied to have
just what I needed.
And sometimes had to be
without that.
I just had common things
and they were clean.
Two things Paul and I had
that I thought was real nice
were in our living room with the
stove, the big bed, a child’s
crib, two chairs and a daveno.
We had a big rocker.
It was wooden, and a tall
upraised pump organ.
I always rocked my babies
a lot and that didn’t hurt
them a bit.
Babies need to be rocked
by both their parents.
They need that every bit
as much as they need good, clean
food and warm quilts. Paul would always say “Don’t
spank the poor little things,”
and wanted me to rock them.
He only had one good arm,
but he took every one of his
children on his knee and told
them stories.
Every home should have a
rocking chair and use it plenty!
Babies grow up too darn
fast.
Pauline
was an extra good seamstress and
always got number one grades in
school.
Mildred was a good cook
and a good, clean housekeeper.
Ruby had a good memory
and was a lovable type of
person.
Norma was another good
student and a good carpenter.
All my girls can sew real
well.
Jack was an accurate and
dependable person and knew just
how to do things. Nola loved children and
was an artist. All my children, except
Ruby, married and had large
families.
And that’s the best
thing anyone can do while living
here on this earth.
Anything else they do
doesn’t amount to a hill of
beans compared to the happiness
children bring to their parents.
Papa
and Mama thought raising a good
family was the most important
thing they could do.
And they taught them
right.
I don’t know what I
would do without my children.
They write letters, send
packages and presents, call 'em
on the telephone, come to visit
me, and take me places. That proves that my
children love me. I loved Papa and Mama and
took care of them there in Boise
about three years, and after
Papa died, Mama lived with us
about two years before she died.
I feel happy about doing
everything I could for them when
they needed help. Paul was one hundred
percent for that too.
I
was in the eighth grade when I
last went to school because they
didn’t have high school up
there in the Bull Mountains.
The last school teacher I
had was a man.
I remember he always
called me “Miss Cox,”
instead of by my given name “Vaughn.” And girls wore dresses
everywhere. We never wore pants like
they do nowadays.
I wore long dresses after
I was twelve.
It wasn’t considered
decent for girls to be showing
their legs up above their knees,
and it still shouldn’t be!
We never did talk about
sex in public.
People were different in
those days.
Clothes that covered all
the body was considered decent,
and still should be!
Long hair was the style
long ago.
I remember when girls
first started cutting their hair
short.
People thought they were
indecent.
Times sure change, but we
don’t have to.
Just because a million
people say a thing is right
doesn’t make it right.
No sir!
And that’s the absolute
truth.
Do
what the Bible says. Obey your parents.
And live a good clean
life.
Don’t have anything to
do with the kind of people who
want you to do wrong.
And stay home and help
around the place and do good
things with your family.
Pray every day.
Several times a day is
better.
And do all the things the
prophet says and go to church
and never miss family home
evening.
Remember a shack in the
lane is heaven and you’ll
always be safe there.
You don’t have to
argue, just sing a song, or
whistle a tune. And above all, help
others to be ready when the
Savior comes.
And be ready yourself!
I love you all.
Thank
you all for taking time to read
this story about me, things I’ve
done, places I’ve been, songs
I’ve sung, and things I
believe in.
to sum it all up, I’d
just say I’m happy this story
is told.
I sure am.
Because it’s something
to be happy about!
I hope you all have a
happy life and can get your
story told, because every one of
you have an important story to
tell.
Don’t you agree?
A wonderful story of your
turn on earth.
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